It is hard to get over a cheater because a betrayal of trust turns your world upside down. And the only way to flip it right-side up again is to give ourselves permission to work through it. To accept what happened. To mourn someone we hate. To grieve a relationship we walked away from. To work through every paradoxical situation we encounter, until we come through on the other side. The side with a clean slate. The side where we don’t just suspect that we deserve better — we know. And the side where we are proud of ourselves for never accepting any less.
Team rain or shine! 😁🐽🍕 (at Project Pie, Bluebay Walk Macapagal)
"I constantly tell myself ‘I’m done’ but then I find myself trying again."
(via kushandwizdom) words-of-emotion)
I’m stumbling off drunk, getting myself lost
I am so gone, so tell me the way home
I listen to sad songs, singing about love
And where it goes wrong
Let it happen.
"My eyes wanted to sleep. But my brain keeps on telling me to stay up and think of him. I wanted to shut my brain off but my heart insisted.. "You have to bleed during times when no one could see you. So you’ll learn how to make yourself stronger. All by yourself.""
― 3AM thoughts / EJC
REMOVE TOXIC PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE.
Bawat salita at banat na binibitawan mo sa akin, yun din pala sinasabi mo sakanya. Lahat ng kanta na sinabi mong pakinggan ko, malamang inaawit mo rin sakanya. Baka nga yung paborito ko pang kanta yung theme song niyong dalawa. Kung dati may kilig at tuwa akong nadarama tuwing naririnig o nababasa ko ang mga ‘yun, ngayon parang hindi ko na kayang balikan. Hindi ko alam kung alin pa ang totoo sa mga sinabi mo, kung mayroon man. Masakit kasi hindi ako sigurado kung para sa akin ba talaga yung mga ‘yun.
“You deserve better.”
You don’t know what I deserve. I deserve to fall in love, to feel the pain of heartbreak, to experience new things and feelings, to grow as a person, to live and to learn… I deserve to do anything or experience anything with you or whoever the hell I want. But don’t you dare tell me that I deserve better, because at the end of the day that’s my decision. It’s up to me to decide what I want in a relationship. And if it’s you that I want, you better have a real excuse to leave, because “you deserve better” does not cut it.